{"id":353,"date":"2015-09-05T12:00:34","date_gmt":"2015-09-05T19:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loren.wpengine.com\/?p=353"},"modified":"2015-09-05T00:02:35","modified_gmt":"2015-09-05T07:02:35","slug":"being-silent-when-you-have-been-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorennason.com\/2015\/09\/being-silent-when-you-have-been-hurt\/","title":{"rendered":"Being Silent when you have been Hurt"},"content":{"rendered":"
When you have a problem with someone the worst thing you can do is be silent in hurt\/anger\/pain\/whatever. When you are silent the other person who has wronged you probably doesn’t even know that they have done so.<\/p>\n
The only way to solve the problem is to talk the problem out. Arguing is good as well but talking is probably better.<\/p>\n
The problem with men is that we can’t read minds. When we don’t know what we have done wrong or know that we have caused pain so we go about our business taking care of everything else and never then resolve the issue because we don’t know there are issues. And\u00a0since the original issue isn’t resolved it then festers deep inside for days\/months\/years until it blows up in everyone’s face.<\/p>\n
If you want to resolve problems you have to talk to each other. For men this means you should poke a little harder to get your Passive-Aggressive partner to finally admit what they are pissed about. It may lead to an yelling match\/argument but at least you may be able to resolve the problem and move past it.<\/p>\n
Vaguebooking on Facebook (or other social platforms) DOES NOT HELP THE PROBLEM.<\/p>\n